College is filled with new experiences, and having a roommate is a particular one that almost all college students will have. As someone who has had three roommates, here is what you need to know.

  1. Know your own living style.

Are you a light sleeper? Do you hate when others use your things? 

If these statements apply to you, chances are you would be better off in a single. Chances are you’ll be grateful that you will get to fully enjoy your slumber.

  1. Set clear boundaries from the start!

The roommate agreement is undeniably a pain. But, TAKE IT SERIOUSLY! Lay out all your boundaries. Be more specific than you think! For example, if you are talking about sharing, define what sharing is. Also, talk about how you want to handle conflicts. Wanting to seem chill and not fully expressing what you want will only make it worse later. 

  1. Talk about the awkward things

Ask if your roommate is in a relationship and if so, how often will their partner be there and will they sleep over. This is a common issue for many people, so it’s important to talk about what you’re comfortable with in this regard.

  1. Dealing with conflicts

Conflicts are inevitable when living with anyone. If something bothers you, try and talk to your roommate about it as soon as you can. I know conflicts are anxiety-inducing and stressful, but this is key to avoiding resentment later. Plus, it doesn’t always need to be a serious conversation! You can make a joke about it or bring it up casually in passing.

  1. Have reasonable expectations

Your roommate will probably not end up as your best friend, and that’s ok! As long as the living arrangement works is most important of all. Don’t expect everything to be perfect, there will be kinks to work out. 

  1. If all else fails…

Living with someone nice doesn’t necessarily mean you will be compatible roommates. If you really feel like you’d be happier elsewhere, you can always move!

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